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Demi Lovato quickly shut down rumors that she's been secretly engaged to longtime boyfriend Wilmer Valderrama during a Wednesday appearance on The Ellen DeGeneres Show. 

"I don't see a ring," Demi said while holding up her hand and laughing. "But I wouldn't mind if I saw one! There's time for everything, you know. We've been together this long, and obviously I'm not going anywhere and vice versa."

Lovato and Valderrama have been together for about five years on and off and have been pretty open about their relationship. In an interview with Cosmopolitan, Lovato admitted to Valderrama supporting her during her downward spiral.

"We started dating when I turned 18. . . Right after that, I went to rehab. People told him, 'You should probably leave. She's on a spiral, and you're going to be sucked down with it.' But he was like, 'I'm not leaving. This is somebody I really care about.' We relate on a lot of levels."

These two clearly care about each other and Lovato seems confident that Valderrama will eventually pop the question. But constantly being asked whether or not they're engaged has to get annoying. It's also kind of rude. If there's three questions you should never bug a woman with, it's when are you getting engaged? When are you getting married? And when are you having a baby? Seriously, we put enough pressure on ourselves to then have to get it from other people. Just because a couple have been together for a while doesn't mean they have to rush down the aisle.

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As for Lovato, people need to just let this girl live. This isn't the first time she's had to comment on not being engaged either. Here's a timeline of all the times people thought these two were getting married!

November 2013

Folks went nuts after Valderrama was spotted picking up jewelry from a Tiffany & Co. store in Pasadena, California. According to close sources it was a ring with the message, "With you and by you always." The rumors were later squashed but interestingly enough Valderrama did post a very similar message on Twitter months earlier for Lovato's birthday.

November 2013

Ellen DeGeneres addressed engagement rumors on her show for the first time in November 2013, and Lovato's response to the whole thing was hysterical. "I'm engaged," she said while exciting a screaming audience. "Yeah, he's five and we have to wait a little while." Turns out Lovato was joking about a cute little fan of hers. Good one!

January 2014

Then in January of 2014, rumors starting popping again of a possible engagement after Lovato posted a picture to Twitter where a ring was seen on her engagement finger. The photo was captioned with heart emojis.

January 2014

It only continued after Lovato posted this photo on Twitter wishing Valderrama a happy birthday.

July 2015

During an interview with New Zealand's ZM radio in July, Lovato revealed she would said yes to boyfriend Wilmer Valderrama if he asked her to marry him, which once again lead to crazy rumors about the two being engaged. Lovato quickly shut them down after posting photos hinting at a possible engagement and then saying, "Not engaged . . .ya'll are crazy."

July 2015

Exciting things coming veeeerrrrryyyy sooooon ????????❤️????

A photo posted by Demi Lovato (@ddlovato) on

Earlier that month Lovato posted a cute selfie with her hands over her lips captioned: "Exciting things coming veeeerrrrryyyy sooooon." Of course people automatically assumed she was hinting at an engagement. When are people going to give this a rest?

Demi being amazing and talented like always

This performance by Demi Lovato is unreal.

Posted by Ellen DeGeneres on Wednesday, February 10, 2016

Who cares about talking about a ring, when she can sing like that???