Telenovela love may be based on real life, but that doesn’t mean that actors want those worlds to collide. Mexican telenovela actor Arap Bethke, currently playing a private detective on Telemundo’s Eva La Trailera, sat down to talk to us about just that. Bethke shares why on-set relationships are no longer his cup of tea (despite finding true love there once before), the qualities in a woman that he finds way more stimulating than good looks, and the importance of standing up for women’s rights by being part of HeForShe — a U.N. organization that stands for "gender equality and the empowerment of women" — no matter how taboo being a male feminist may seem.